The real victims and long term damage caused by governments decision to shut down the world is the children.

The kids of today are the future adults who will run this world in another 10 or 20 years need help, and so I want to offer my experience and knowledge of decades of study and mentoring kids and adults, because the innocent victims of the foolish actions of the governments, and their parents are going crazy not knowing what to do.

This is a long article because it requires a preamble of the situation and fundamental information to make the useful and practical information clear. I hope you will read with a patient and open mind, and that this article provides parents and children solutions to the problems of the ‘new normal’ which is not normal at all.

There is no hope of communication and resolution,

Without clear and sincere understanding of how the other person feels.

By preventing kids of all ages, toddlers to teenagers, from going to school and socializing, their mental and emotional development is not only being stunted but severely and possibly permanently damaged.

The younger kids who have not begun to understand the requirements of adult life which includes making money and thus needing a job, are simply adapting to a life of isolation as they learn what life on earth is like as a human, while the older kids are losing motivation and hope for their chances of ever getting a job or being able to have enough money to survive and live a decent life on their own.

The core nature of a human being is companionship. Our greatest and most necessary food is contact with other people. Our mind needs that for mental and intellectual stimulation, which triggers many chemicals in our brain bringing a positive and motivational feeling of excitement.

Our emotions need that to provide a sense of purpose and belonging, and our body needs that as clearly exhibited by children who are always touching and needing the hugs and cuddles of their parent, which of course continues throughout our life.

The idea of standing two meters away from anyone, the horrid fear of being near anyone in an elevator or standing in a shop as if you will die if you get too close, even if you do not believe in that, is effecting everyone on a subconscious level. As an adult who knows better you can deal with it very differently than a child who does not know how life could and should be like, but sees this as how it will always be. That view is severely depressing and hopeless.

Fear of terrorism used to grip part of the world, and now fear of death from a virus that is actually only being blamed for one fraction of one percent of the people who get it, which is a fraction of a fraction of the global population as most people do not get sick even when sleeping with someone who has it, shows that the fear is of an imaginary monster that does not really exist. We cannot fight the invisible imagination, that adds to more hopelessness and depression.

Yet, we are being fed and led to fear everyone, even breathing outdoors in nature where people often still wear a mask. If you are scared to breath, where is there a moment of peace and comfort?

Imagine how a young mind which is trying to understand this already bizarre world is developing it’s view of life? Hold your breath every time you go outside!

And so, with this fear, isolation and hopelessness as the overwhelming concept that this is how the world works and what the child has to adapt to and live in, how can anyone expect children to be motivated and well behaved and actually be focused and follow their school lessons on line while home alone?

When people are lost and depressed, they will turn to anything that can numb the pain. Normally that is drugs, alcohol, smoking, etc. But now we have a new drug, which is far more socially acceptable but can be just as destructive; computer games and the smart phone with social media.

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